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Marriage of a Lifetime


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"In this book, Bola has beautifully compiled 25 lessons learned in her marriage over the last 25 years. She is an authority in this area. My husband and I have watched her beautiful marriage grow and glow..."

"It is an honor to recommend this piece as a guide to couples and intending couples who desire to succeed in their marriages."

~ Funke Felix Adejumo. President of the Funke Felix Adejumo Foundation

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Marriage of A Lifetime

Marriage is a journey, and Marriage of a Lifetime is your roadmap to building a healthy and lasting relationship. Drawing on 25 years of personal experience, this practical guide offers invaluable insights and 25 powerful lessons that will transform your marriage.

In this book, you'll discover the secrets to a thriving relationship. Bolanle Olawale emphasizes the importance of friendship as the foundation of a strong marriage. She dispels the notion of a 50-50 mentality and reveals the power of laughter in bringing couples closer together. You'll learn the art of gratitude, the significance of quality sleep, and the transformative impact of effective communication.

With each lesson, you'll uncover practical strategies to improve your marriage. From making and accepting apologies to choosing your words wisely, Bolanie Olawale shares actionable advice that will revolutionize the way you relate to your spouse. She reminds us that love is not just a feeling but a conscious decision we make every day.
Marriage of a Lifetime goes beyond the surface and delves into the deeper purpose of your union. The book encourages you to love your spouse's family as your own and to embrace new beginnings. With a focus on faith and godly principles, it reminds you that your spouse is not your enemy, but your partner in creating a fulfilling life together.

If you desire a marriage that stands the test of time, Marriage of a Lifetime is the guide you need. Bolanle Olawale's wisdom will equip you with the tools to navigate challenges, foster intimacy, and cultivate a love that endures. Take the first step towards a fulfilling marriage and embark on this transformative journey today.

Ready to build a healthy and lasting relationship? Grab your copy now and embark on a transformative journey towards a fulfilling marriage!


What people are saying


Resident Pastor, The Liberty Church

"Pastor Bolanle writes eloquently, and with a candour and realness that will keep you turning the pages..."

"This book is a practical toolkit to help you navigate the journey of marriage and get to your destination of a long lasting and happy marriage. Read it and be equipped!"

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"This book is a treasure chest that singles, married couples, and even those in turbulent marriages should look into to find their own treasure."

"One that may just save your marriage, and, oh, by the way, if someone who has been married for 25 years tells you something about marriage, my advice is that you better listen."

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"A book is a gift from the writer to the reader. Pastor Bola has gifted us with her lived experience and principles founded in the word of God..."

"Having watched her marriage up close, her book is both a joy to read and one I'd recommend not just to people starting out but to people still on the journey. Every chapter was my favourite until I got to the next. This book is both a must read and a must-gift to our family and friends."




In this insightful and beautifully written book, Bolanle invites readers to join her on a journey of growth and discovery, exploring the lessons she’s learned through 25 years of marriage while offering valuable guidance for those looking to foster stronger relationships and a deeper connection to the world around them.

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